Some men are not comfortable initiating breakups, so they rather just keep you around but become emotionally and physically detached from the relationship. That is why it is important to be aware of some of the signs he’s no longer interested in you. 

And if you do confirm your suspicions, I have prepared these “signs he’s no longer interested in you quotes” to help you deal with the rejection, loss, and pain of a guy who did not deserve you. 

According to a conscious rethink, some of the reasons a guy may be keeping you around when he does not want a relationship is because he doesn’t know what he wants or the arrangement is convenient for him.

Table of Contents

• Signs he’s no longer interested in you quotes
• Signs he is no longer interested in you
• Signs he is still interested
• Signs he is no longer interested in you long distance relationship
• What to do when he is no longer interested
• Signs she is no longer interested in you
• Signs he doesn’t like you anymore through text
• Signs he’s not attracted to you anymore

Signs he’s no longer interested in you quotes

1. “There is an ocean of silence between us… and I am drowning in it.” ― Ranata Suzuki
2. “It is a lonely feeling when someone you care about becomes a stranger.” — Lemony Snicket
3. “Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.” – Mark Twain
4. “It’s better to have nobody than to have someone who is half there or doesn’t want to be there.” – Anonymous
5. “You know you can’t give me what I need. And even though you mean so much to me, I can’t wait through everything.” — A Day to Remember, “If It Means A Lot To You”
6. “Poisonous relationships can alter our perception. You can spend many years thinking you’re worthless. But you’re not worthless. You’re underappreciated.” – Steve Maraboli
7. “Our relationship was always about to give and take until you stopped giving but never stopped taking. Goodbye.” – Anonymous
8. “If you have to speculate if someone loves you and wants to be with you, chances are they don’t. It’s not that complicated. Love, in most cases, betrays the one feeling it. Don’t waste moments waiting and wondering. Don’t throw away your time dreaming of someone that doesn’t want you. No one is that amazing, certainly not the one who would pass you up.” ― Donna Lynn Hope
9. “Relationships are supposed to make you feel good. Relationships are not supposed to make you feel bad.” – Laura Bowers
10. “What a painful thing to taste forever in the eyes of someone who doesn’t see the same.” — Perry Poetry
11. “I love you, but I hate you. I miss you, but I’m better off without you. I want you out of my life, but I never want to let you go.” — Minhal Mehdi
12. “The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.” — Ernest Hemingway
13. “I will not try to convince you to love me, to respect me, to commit to me. I deserve better than that; I am better than that… goodbye.” ― Steve Maraboli
14. “My heart no longer felt as if it belonged to me. It now felt as it had been stolen, torn from my chest by someone who wanted no part of it.” ― Meredith Taylor
15. “The saddest thing is to be a minute to someone, when you’ve made them your eternity.” ― Sanober Khan
16. “To truly love is to have the courage to walk away and let the other person who wishes to be free go no matter how much it hurts.” ― Taylor Swift
17. “I don’t want just words. If that’s all you have for me, you’d better go.” ― F. Scott Fitzgerald
18. “The moment you start to wonder if you deserve better, you do.” — David Williams
19. “Nothing hurts more than being disappointed by the single person you thought would never hurt you.” — Ayo Makun
20. “Someone shouldn’t need to be faced with your absence to value your presence.” — Nitya Prakash
21. “I’m guilty of giving people more chances than they deserve but when I’m done, I’m done.” ― Turcois Ominek
22. “You insulted my commitment to betrayal and marred my love with lies. You were indifferent to my pleas and apathetic to my heart’s cries. Since you don’t have a spine, let me say this to you, there is no way out now, breaking up is all that is left to do.” – Anonymous
23. “The biggest weakness of a person is not being selfish, amorous, wild or egotistical, but stubbornly loving someone who doesn’t love you.” – Anonymous
24. “It is in that moment, when you really lay down your cards and see the relationship for what it was, that you’ll find the freedom to kick it in the ass and let it go.” ― Greg Behrendt
25. “No matter how bad you want a person, if your hearts are in two different places, you’ll have to pass and move on.” ― Alexandra Elle
26. “Being close but feeling far, talking but not being heard, loving but not being loved, that is the painful reality of a dying relationship.” ― Steve Maraboli

27. “Unrequited love is the hardest of them all, hoping for something that might never just happen.” – Anonymous
28. “For so many months I was wishing that you, that you would stop pretending. Remember all those countless nights when I told you I’d loved you? And you’d never forget it, oh, just forget it.” — Modern Baseball, “Your Graduation”
29. “Don’t feel sad over someone who gave up on you, feel sorry for them because they gave up on someone who would have never given up on them.”
30. “I hate it when I can’t stop thinking about that one person and deep down inside I know they probably haven’t thought about me once.” – Anonymous
31. “Loving someone who doesn’t love you back is like hugging a cactus. The tighter you hold on, the more it hurts.” – Anonymous
32. “What really hurts, isn’t how you make me feel like a loser today, but the memories of how you made me feel special before.” – Anonymous
33.  “Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself.” – Deborah Reber
34. “We walked to meet each other up at the time of our love and then we have been irresistibly drifting in different directions, and there’s no altering that.” ― Leo Tolstoy
35. “No partner in a love relationship… should feel that he has to give up an essential part of himself to make it viable.” – May Sarton
36. “I’m tired of fighting. For once I want to be fought for.”
37. “There is a difference between giving up and knowing when you have had enough.” — Joanne Reed
38. “Just because I’m strong enough to handle the pain, doesn’t mean I deserve it.”
39. “Your worst battle is between what you know and what you feel.” — Alex Haditaghi
40. “You see a person’s true colors when you are no longer beneficial to their life.” — Lovely Goyal
41. “She didn’t leave you for making too many mistakes, she left because you made the same mistake too many times.” — Theresa Fearon
42. “I miss your smile… but I miss mine more.” ― Laurel House
43. “I was fine before you came into my life. And I bet I’ll be just fine without you in it again.” ― Nina Ardianti
44. “Sometimes it’s better to end something and try to start something new than imprison yourself in hoping for the impossible.” ― Karen Salmansohn
45. “You don’t walk away to prove your worth. You walk away because you allowed someone else to dictate your value and you found yourself believing it.” ― Shannon L. Alder
46. “Somewhere underneath it all, I know he doesn’t deserve to take up space in my brain.” ― Susane Colasanti
47. “I have not broken your heart – you have broken it; and in breaking it, you have broken mine.” ― Emily Brontë
48. “We hurt so much because we have lost a part of ourselves. If we have loved much, we must have given much also, and when everything’s over, we feel as though we have lost everything.” ― Jocelyn Soriano
49. “I’m not crying because of you; you’re not worth it. I’m crying because my delusion of who you were was shattered by the truth of who you are.” — Steve Maraboli
50. “We still talk like every day. But we don’t talk in the same way that we used to, I’ll move on and forget you. We could never see eye to eye.” — Neck Deep, “A Part of Me”
51. “Sometimes it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake and help us see we are worth so much more than we’re settling for.” — Mandy Hale

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Signs he is no longer interested in you

1. He’s stopped initiating calls

If he hardly calls and you are always the one to initiate calls, then it is a clear sign he’s no longer interested in you. When a man is serious about you, he will make an effort to call as often as possible if you don’t see him daily.

And when you ask him why he doesn’t call you, he will give excuses like he was very busy, or it was on silent, or he didn’t have the charger, or he prefers meeting in person than making calls. He even lies and says he was just about to call when you called.

2. He no longer spends time with you

In a normal relationship, a man will prefer to spend most of his time with his girlfriend than anyone else. If he is always “too busy” to see you, it is one of the signs he is no longer interested in you. Someone who is serious will still make time for friends, but you are his priority.

3. Everything you do seems to upset him

When a man is no longer interested in you, he will find fault in everything that you do or do not do. There is nothing that you’ll do that he will appreciate. 

He’ll hate your cooking, how you speak to him, and he will claim that you constantly disrespect him, yet these were things he never used to complain about before.

4. He’s already told you he’s not ready for anything serious

If a man has already indicated that he is not ready for anything serious, then it is a clear sign he never loved you. A man already knows from the time he approaches you if he wants a serious relationship with you or not.

5. He no longer wants to be intimate with you

Sex is really tricky when it comes to relationships. A man can want to use you just for sex but he can also be patient and wait for you to be ready. And once you give in, he starts pulling away.

Or if you were in a normal relationship but he now rejects you sexually and you have ruled out reasons like stress etc, it can be a sign he is no longer interested in you.

6. He doesn’t show you any of the love languages

Being in love with someone who is into you is clear because he will make you feel loved. A man who is into you will make use of more than one love language to portray his love for you. My belief is that a man should love more in a relationship. Any normal relationship is bound to have at least one of these:

• words of affirmation
• gifts
• acts of service
• quality time
• physical touch

7. He constantly disappoints you

If he always cancels appointments or he just doesn’t pitch, or he promises to do something and he constantly does not deliver, then it is one of the signs he’s no longer interested in you. 

8. He doesn’t text you or respond to your texts timely

A man who is no longer into you will be online chatting to other people but he will not be chatting to you. Even when you text him, he will take time to respond although you can see that he is online.

9. He no longer gets back to your calls

Most of the time when you call him he does not pick up and sometimes he will not even bother returning your calls. This can also be one of the signs that he is cheating.

10. If you break up with him, he does not make an effort to get you back

If you happen to end the relationship because you are tired of his behaviour, he will not even bother to fight for you. He will not even call you or text you or even come to see you. 

And even if you have blocked him, he will not even notice since he won’t try to contact you. You will be the one to eventually go back to him because you miss the non-existent relationship.

11. You constantly beg for his attention

One of the signs he’s not into you is when you constantly have to beg for attention. You always have to remind him to call you, text you, visit you, etc. And when you are together he is not emotionally there. He is either too busy on his phone or busy with other tasks or he prefers to just take a nap instead of bonding with you.

12. He suggests that you are paranoid

When you complain about his behavior, he will suggest that you are imagining things, or even tell you that you are too clingy. He makes you doubt yourself and suggests that you have unreasonable demands. Such a person gaslights you and makes you question your thoughts.

Read more: 12 Ways to make him serious about you

Signs he is still interested

1. He calls often

One of the signs he is still interested is when he still calls you often, even if he has nothing much to say. So you know that communication with him is consistent, he never goes AWOL on you.

2. He texts often

When a guy initiates texting, it is a sign that he is still interested. When a guy is no longer interested he even stops texting.

3. He wants to meet up with you

If he still insists on meeting up with you, it is a sign he is still interested. A guy who is not interested will not even suggest that you should meet up.

4. He is available when you need him

When a guy always avails himself when you need him, he is even there for all your emotional and physical needs, then he is still interested in you. 

5. He flirts with you

When he still flirts with you, tells you sweet words, calls you by a pet name, compliments you, then he is still interested in you.

6. He’s quick to respond to texts

If a guy is quick to respond to you, it is one of the texting signs he likes you. So if he always responds to all your texts almost immediately, and does not give one-word answers, he is still interested in you.

7. He responds to your calls

When a guy still answers your calls and seems happy to hear from you, it is a sign he is still interested. When he is no longer interested he will ignore your calls or if he does answer, his voice will not be welcoming.

Read more: 21 Signs your ex is becoming interested again

Signs he is no longer interested in you long distance relationship

1. He no longer initiates communication

If he’s completely stopped initiating the calls and texting, it is a sign he is no longer interested in you.

2. He suddenly has nothing to say to you

If your conversations used to be engaging before but it now he seems cold when you speak to him, it is a sign he’s no longer interested in you or he is angry over something.

3. He does not want you to visit him

When you suggest visiting him, he refuses and claims to be busy, which might be a sign he’s no longer interested in you.

4. You no longer get hold of him

If you used to communicate often and get hold of him at anytime of the day but now when you contact him he no longer responds or gets back to you, it is a sign he’s lost interest in that long-distance relationship.

5. You’re no longer up to date with his life

If you used to know his daily schedule, he used to update you on what he gets up to and on who he is meeting, but now he’s stopped, he might no longer be interested in you.

6. He claims to be busy

When he now always claims to be busy and no longer has time to talk to you or meet up with you, it is a sign he’s no longer interested in you.

7. He no longer initiates meet ups

If he no longer says that he wants to meet up with you, or he no longer visits you as before, it is also a sad sign he is no longer interested in you.

What to do when he is no longer interested

1. Talk to him

Sometimes people do not lose interest because they have fallen out of love, but it might be because of something you have done. 

So talk to him to find out if you are still cool or if there is something that is bothering him because you have noticed that something has changed. I suggest you talk to him in person or over a call. 

So it is either he will tell what is eating him up or he will tell you that you are just imagining things.

But please be calm, do not be confrontational or ask him in an accusing manner. 

Also mention how it makes you feel when he is no longer giving you attention. Tell him that it makes you feel like he is losing interest in you and you feel unloved.

Read more: How to deal with being ignored by someone you love

2. Give him space

After talking to him please give him some space. Use this time to work on yourself and love yourself.

If he starts to give you attention then that is great but if he still continues being quiet please don’t be pushy. Don’t text him or call him. Wait for him to contact you first. 

Also, read these 25 signs he doesn’t love you so that you can come to the right conclusion and make the right decision.

Signs she is no longer interested in you

1. She’s stopped replying to your texts
2. She ignores your calls
3. Her responses have become brief
4. She no longer wants to meet up with you
5. She no longer initiates conversations
6. She’s with someone else

Signs he doesn’t like you anymore through text

1. He no longer initiates texts

One of signs he doesn’t like you anymore through text is when he no longer texts you first. He used to love texting you and not a single day would go by without chatting to you. 

But now, days can go by without receiving a text or a call from him. And when you ask him why he stopped communicating, he gives you lame excuses and still continues with the silence.

2. He no longer responds to all your texts

Before, he used to respond to all your texts; he would never leave any of your texts hanging.

But now, he ignores some of your texts or pretends as if he never saw them. If a guy no longer responds to your texts, it is a sign he doesn’t like you anymore.

3. He’s always too busy to text

Previously, he always made time to text you and respond to your texts. But suddenly he has become too busy that he cannot even spare a minute to say “Hi, was just checking up on you. It’s too busy on my side, we will talk when I get a chance.”

If a guy tells you that he is too busy, and he only says it after you have complained or made follow-ups, it is a sign he doesn’t like you anymore.

4. He no longer asks you questions

He has stopped giving you attention. Before, the conversations would flow because he would give you the attention and asks you questions. 

Now he no longer even asks you how your day was, what you got up to, and what you are doing. It is like he has stopped caring. 

Even if you can say you are not fine, he will just say “okay” instead of asking you why you are not fine.

5. He is always too tired to text

He used to text you a lot before, but now he has become unavailable. When you ask him why, he tells you that he was sleeping, or he is too tired so he wants to sleep early. If he behaves this way, it can even be signs he’s cheating on you which is why he could not talk to you.

If he no longer seems eager to text you, then know that he’s lost interest. 

6. He’s online but he does not respond to your texts

You have sent him a message and you can see that he is online and so many minutes or hours have passed without getting a response from him. Or he has even read your text, but he blueticked you.

It feels like you are being ghosted, then it is a huge sign he doesn’t like you anymore or he’s angry over something.

7. He no longer talks about meeting up with you

When a man loves you, he will always want to see you. Before he always requested to see you, but now he has stopped asking when are you coming to see him. 

If it does not make a difference to him whether he sees you or not, then it is a sign he doesn’t like you anymore through text. 

8. He only contacts you when he wants a favor or a booty call

He used to text you because he loved talking to you and not because he wanted you to do something for him. 

So now if he only texts you when he wants a favor from you or when he wants to sleep with you it is a sign a guy is losing interest through text or he pretends to love you.

9. He does not flirt with you through text

If a guy has stopped calling you sweet pet names or sending flirty emojis, it is a sign he doesn’t like you anymore through text. 

Signs he’s not attracted to you anymore

1. He no longer touches you 
2. He’s rarely intimate with you
3. He treats you like a roommate than lover
4. He always complains about your image
5. He’s always complaining about what you do or do not do
6. He compares you to other people
7. Everything you do seems to upset him