13 Sure Signs he only wants you for your body
How do you know if a man genuinely likes you or if he’s just trying to get into your pants? What are the signs he only wants you for your body?
You may be reading this article because there is a guy who is showing interest in you, but you do not want to make the same mistake as before; sleeping with a guy only to regret it later.
It can be difficult to know a man’s true intentions when he pursues you because they are good actors.
A man will never be honest and say “hey, I’m in a relationship but I have lust for you, can we hit it off?” He will still approach you the same way he would when he wants a serious relationship.
So these 13 subtle signs will help you identify if a guy wants you for real or if he only wants you for your body.
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Signs he only wants you for your body
1. He is in a committed relationship
If a guy approaches you while he is in a committed relationship or is already married, it is a sure sign he only wants you for your body. He has no intentions of committing to you or leaving his woman.
A married man just wants to have access to sleep with you whenever he feels like it, but he disguises it as being in love with you.
A married man’s lies can be so believable because he knows how to treat a woman and he is very patient with his target.
So you might think that he loves you for real, but he has time to play the game right because being with you will just be a bonus, he already gets a full package (relationship + intimacy) from his wife.
So if a married man is pursuing you, he is only after your body and not your brains.
Read more: Signs a married man is using you
2. There is no official date, the first meeting is at his place
When a guy likes you, he won’t be quick to rush you to the bedroom. He will meet up with you in a neutral place, so you can get to know each other without being intimate.
A man who is just after your body will not want to waste money and take you on a date because it will not be guaranteed that he will score after the date. But he knows that if you are at his place, he will score. And even if you refuse, he would not have wasted his time and money on you.
3. He is not consistent in chasing you
When a guy likes you with the intention to make you his girlfriend, he will chase after you. And even when you turn him down, he will not give up so easily.
He will use different tactics to win you over like checking up on you often, taking you on dates, giving you gifts, texting you, supporting your business, etc.
But when he only wants you for your body, he will be inconsistent in pursuing you. He will text you to come over and if you do not seem interested, he will be quiet for some time and reach out to you again after some months.
4. He messages you after seeing a sexy picture of you on social media
If a guy directly messages (DM) you after you have posted a sexy image of yourself on social media, it means his eyes are fascinated by what he saw. He becomes infatuated and wants to try his luck by reaching out to you.
One thing you should know is that men are visual beings, if the image looks appealing, they are easily turned on. That is why the bible in Matthew 5:28 says,
“But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”
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So you really want to be careful because you might mistake his lust for love.
5. He asks you to travel with him
If you are not in a relationship with him, but he asks you to travel with him to his business meeting which is out of town, he just wants you for your body.
He knows you will be fascinated by the idea of traveling and you will let your guard down. The travel card makes it easier for guys to get into the pants of a woman who has been giving him a hard time or playing hard to get.
He knows that it will be difficult for you to refuse if you are out of town and stuck in the same hotel room as him.
6. He wants to meet up with you when he is in your neighborhood
If a guy only contacts you when he is around your area, but the other times he is quiet, you’re just his booty call.
He just wants you to service him when he is away from his steady girlfriend.
7. After paying the bill, he expects you to sleep with him
If he found you at the club and he paid for your bill, or if you went on a date and he paid, he assumes that you will be sleeping on the same bed. In his mind, he already feels like you owe him because he has already paid for you and you must return the favor by sleeping with him.
And when you do not want to be intimate with him, he gets angry and stops contacting you.
If you already feel like a guy is being cold towards you after you refused to sleep with him, it is a sign he only wants you for your body.
8. He’s unavailable when you want to meet up with him
When a guy is in love with you, he will enjoy spending time with you.
But if he makes up excuses when you want to meet up with him, it is signs he does not love you. He only wants to meet up with you when it is convenient for him.
9. He wants you to send him nudes
If a guy you have never met, or a guy that you are not in a relationship with wants you to send your nudes, it is a sign he only wants you for your body.
If he was interested in more than your body, sending him nudes would be the last request he makes.
10. He does not want to see you if you won’t be intimate
When a guy shows no interest in meeting up with you when you tell him you are on your periods or that you cannot sleep with him, it is a sign he only wants you for your body.
11. He’s told you he is not ready for a relationship
If a guy has already told you that he really likes you but is not ready for a relationship, or does not want to define the relationship, you should worry.
It means he wants to sleep with you without being committed to you. It is his way of saying he only wants your body but not you.
12. His body language
When he is with you, he constantly stares into your chest area, as well as the lower part of the body. And the reason he does this is that he is busy undressing you with his eyes. He will also lick or bite his lips as a sign he wants you for your body.
Check out this for more body language signs a guy is really turned on by you.
13. He does not remember the things you told him
If a guy cannot remember the important details that you have shared with him about yourself like your name, your birth month, what you like, what you do, it’s a sign he’s not into you.
He does not pay attention to you because he only wants you for your body, he has no intentions of building a future with you.
Read more: 25 Warning signs he never loved you
How do you know if a man just wants to sleep with you?
Be careful of a married man, because if he pursues you, he just wants to sleep with you, no matter how loving he can be.
If a man just wants to sleep with you, he will not be consistent in chasing you. If he can’t have you after two attempts, he will stop pursuing you.
He will want you to come over to his place without ever taking you on a proper date.
How do you know if he’s just trying to get into your pants?
When a man is just trying to get into your pants, he will be charming, romantic, and even generous, although you know that he is in a relationship with someone else. Then after you sleep with him, he no longer gives you attention.
He will take you out, makes sure that you drink enough wine or alcohol so that it can be easier to get into your pants.
Or he will ask you to come and visit him.
