I am a woman, yet I do not believe it is fair to label men as trash, while women are also guilty of the same deeds. Women call men trash only when it suits them.

1. Women call men trash for cheating, while women knowingly cheat with married men
2. When men kill their women for cheating it is called gender-based violence yet when men are killed by women there is no term for it.
3. Women call men trash for having other kids outside their marital home, while women lie to men about being the fathers of their kids.
4. Women call men trash when they do not disclose that they are married, yet who calls women trash when they are sleeping with their friends and sibling’s husbands?
5. When men beat women up they are called abusers, yet who do men cry to when they are beaten up by their women?
6. Women call men trash when a man threatens to kill her if she breaks up with him yet when women use muti to strengthen relationships are they called witches?
7. Women call men trash when a man splashes money on other women, yet women are not called trash when they receive money from other people’s men.
8. Women call men trash when they do not play the father figure in their kids’ lives, yet women are not trash when they deny men from supporting their other kids.