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Emotional Breakup quotes for her

You might be going through these emotional breakup quotes for her because you want to soothe your broken heart or want to comfort a friend who is going through a breakup. Breakups suck, they are painful and sad. Go ahead and cry, but also gather the strength to move on.

I have been through breakups before and I know some of the emotions that you might be going through. You have cried numerous times and even have swollen eyes. You are wondering how you will face tomorrow again without him in your life. And the question that is lingering in your head is was it a lie, all the times you spent together was it all for nothing?

You are asking yourself if you will still be able to start all over again. Please check out my tips on how to stop thinking about someone you love deeply and also these tips on how to move on from someone you love. 

But when they say better days are ahead, I can attest to it. Sometimes you have to lose the one you love, so you can get the one who loves you so much and you also love. And it can’t happen unless you have made space for him in your heart. 

Your life post-breakup can even be better than before, but the decision lies with you. It will take time to forget those great times you shared, but with time, you will be pain-free, happier and it will all make sense. You will even thank him and yourself for the breakup. 

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Emotional breakup quotes for her

  1. “Nothing hurts more than being disappointed by the one person who you thought would never hurt you.” – Gugu Mofokeng
  1. “How can I be reasonable? To me, our love was everything and you were my whole life. It is not very pleasant to realize that to you it was only an episode.” – W. Somerset Maugham
  1. “How do you love someone and just… Walk away? Just like that. You just, go on as normal…. You get up, get dressed, go to work… How can you do that? How can you be okay with that?” – Ranata Suzuki
  1. “I learned that people leave. Even if they have promised a thousand times that they won’t.”
  1. “Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes just be an illusion.” – Javan
  1. “Six letters, two words, easy to say, hard to explain, harder to do: Move on.”
  1. “I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.” – Haruki Murakami
  1. “What do you do when the person who broke your heart is the only one who can fix it?”
  1. “This is what it felt like to have a broken heart. It felt less like a cracking down the middle and more like she had swallowed it whole and it sat bruised and bleeding in the pit of her stomach.” – Wendy Wunder
  1. “Nobody will protect you from your suffering. You can’t cry it away or eat it away or starve it away or walk it away or punch it away or even therapy it away. It’s just there, and you have to survive it. You have to endure it. You have to live through it and love it and move on and be better for it and run as far as you can in the direction of your best and happiest dreams across the bridge that was built by your own desire to heal.” – Cheryl Strayed
  1. “Let it hurt. Let it bleed. Let it heal. And let it go.” – Nikita Gill
  1. “I know you won’t come back, but my emotions are not letting me accept that. is an unfinished novel.”
  1. “Sometimes, I don’t know what haunts me more.. The memories of you… Or the happy person I used to be.” – Ranata Suzuki
  1. “I didn’t lose you. You lost me. You’ll search for me inside of everyone you’re with and I won’t be found.” – R.H.Sin
  1. “Let’s hope that for every time that we get hurt or break our heart, there is something somewhere being written to make up for it, to make the happiness due even bigger and laughters even merrier, for after all good things must happen to good people.” – Mansi Soni
  1. “The heart was made to be broken.” – Oscar Wilde
  1. “Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.” – Marian Keyes
  1. “It is sad how someone can go from being the reason you were smiling to being the reason that you cry yourself to sleep.”
  1. “It isn’t fair that I’m sitting here thinking of you and that you probably haven’t thought of me at all since we broke up.”
  1. “Love is unconditional. Relationships are not.” – Grant Gudmunson
  1. “I’m not crying because of you; you’re not worth it. I’m crying because my delusion of who you were was shattered by the truth of who you are.” – Steve Maraboli
  2. “I had many reasons to give up on you but I chose to stay. You had many reasons to stay but you chose to give up.”
  3. “Hearts can break. Yes, hearts can break. Sometimes I think it would be better if we died when they did, but we don’t.” – Stephen King
  4. “Never regret a relationship that has ended. If it was good, then that is wonderful. If it was bad, then you have experience.”
  5. “Sharp is the arrows of a broken heart.” – Cassandra Clare
  6. “Sometimes you have to accept that just because you can have room for someone in your heart, it does not always mean that you should have room for them in your life.”
  7. “Every time your heart is broken, a doorway cracks open to a world full of new beginnings, new opportunities.” – Patti Roberts
  8. “Sometimes you just have to live your life, even if that means letting go of someone who meant the world to you.”
  9. “My mouth says, “I’m ok.” My fingers text, “I’m fine.” My heart says, “I’m broken.”
  10. “Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be” – Sonia Ricotti
  11. “Sometimes it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake and help us see we are worth so much more than we’re settling for.” – Mandy Hale
  12. “One of the most difficult tasks in life is removing someone from your heart.”
  13. “Why did I always end up loving the person who hurt me the most? Why was love so cruel?” – J.C. Reed
  14. “I know my heart will never be the same but I’m telling myself I’ll be okay.” – Sara Evans
  1. “Someday we’ll forget the hurt, the reason we cried, and who caused us pain. We will finally realize that the secret of being free is not revenge, but letting things unfold in their own way and own time. After all, what matters is not the first, but the last chapter of our life which shows how well we ran the race. So smile, laugh, forgive, believe, and love all over again.”
  2. “Why did I always end up loving the person who hurt me the most? Why was love so cruel?” – J.C. Reed
  3. “I know my heart will never be the same but I’m telling myself I’ll be okay.” – Sara Evans
  4. “A broken heart is the worst. It’s like having broken ribs. Nobody can see it, but it hurts every time you breathe.”
  5. “Crying is a way your eyes speak when your mouth can’t explain how broken your heart is.”
  6. “Don’t be sorry. I trusted you. My fault, not yours.” – Alfred Kubin
  7. “Change is hard at first, messy in the middle and gorgeous at the end.” – Robin Sharma
  8. “I missed you until I realized there was never really anything to miss but the peace I felt before I knew you…” – R. H. Sin
  9. “‘It was a mistake,’ you said. But the cruel thing was, it felt like the mistake was mine, for trusting you.” – David Levithan
  10. “Whatever you do, never run back to what broke you.” – Frank Ocean
  11. “It takes a strong heart to love. And it takes a truly strong heart to love again after being hurt.” – Karen Salmansohn
  12. “Stab the body and it heals, but injure the heart and the wound lasts a lifetime.” – Mineko Iwasaki
  13. “Everyone said that when you fall in love it feels great but nobody said that it may hurt you equally.”
  1. “Virtually all women will always carry the scars and a deep sense of loss and grief from the betrayal. Time is the salve on this journey towards forgiveness and healing because it is also a process of grieving.” – Meryn G. Callander
  1. “What do you do when the one person you want comfort from the most is the one who caused your pain? How can I want so desperately for him to wrap me up in his arms but also want so much for him to leave me alone.”- Amanda Grace
  2. “I’m going to smile and make you think I’m happy, I’m going to laugh, so you don’t see me cry, I’m going to let you go in style, and even if it kills me – I’m going to smile.”

Heart touching breakup quotes

Heart touching breakup quotes
  1. “No matter how hard your heart is broken, the world doesn’t stop for your grief.” — Faraaz Kazi
  2. “The hardest thing I’ll ever do is walk away still loving you.” —Tracy Lawrence
  3. “The heart was made to be broken.” — Oscar Wilde
  4. “There are all kinds of ways for a relationship to be tested, even broken, some, irrevocably; it’s the endings we’re unprepared for.” – Katherine Owen

Painful breakup quotes

  1. “‘That’s what happens,’ she said. ‘You let people in, and they destroy you.'”— Hasna
  2. “The toughest part of letting go is realizing the other person already did.”— Lalla
  3. “Nothing hurts more than being disappointed by the one person who you thought would never hurt you.” — Gugu Mofokeng
  4. “How do you love someone and just… Walk away? Just like that. You just, go on as normal…. You get up, get dressed, go to work… How can you do that? How can you be okay with that?” —Ranata Suzuki
  5. “Sometimes, I don’t know what haunts me more… The memories of you… Or the happy person I used to be.” —Ranata Suzuki
  6. “I always knew looking back on the tears would make me laugh, but I never knew looking back on the laughs would make me cry.” —Dr. Seuss
  7. “Pain makes you stronger, fear makes you braver, heartbreak makes you wiser.” —Drake

Love breakup quotes

  1. “You made me feel like I was hard to love and I will never forgive you for that.”— Johnny Lauve
  2. “The hottest love has the coldest end.” — Socrates
  3. “If you really want closure… at some point, you have to shut the door.” — Jacki Wells Wunderlin
  4. “Love is unconditional. Relationships are not.” – Grant Gudmunson
  5. “The way they leave tells you everything.” – Rupi Kaur
  6. “So it’s true, when all is said and done, grief is the price we pay for love.” – E.A. Bucchianeri

Emotional breakup quotes for him

  1. “The shattering of a heart when being broken is the loudest quiet ever.” – Carroll Bryant
  2. “If someone makes you miserable more than they make you happy, then it is time to let them go, no matter how much you love them.”
  3. “I’m not crying because of you; you’re not worth it. I’m crying because my delusion of who you were was shattered by the truth of who you are.” – Steve Maraboli
  4. “Breakups can be sad, but sometimes tears are the price we pay for a freedom we need.” – Steve Maraboli

Positive breakup quotes

  1. “Remember that sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck.” —Dalai Lama
  2. “Change is hard at first, messy in the middle and gorgeous at the end.” – Robin Sharma
  3. “You don’t walk out of a breakup empty-handed. Every breakup teaches a lesson. Find yours.”
  4. “If you’re brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello.” —Paulo Coelho
  5. “He’s going to be sorry he lost you, so stop worrying. Forget the past, forget the pain and remember what an incredible woman you are.” —Drake
  6. “Don’t cry when the sun is gone because the tears won’t let you see the stars.” — Violeta Para
  7. “Pain makes you stronger, fear makes you braver, heartbreak makes you wiser.” —Drake
  8. “When someone leaves, it’s because someone else is about to arrive.” — Paulo Coelho
  9. “Someday it’s gonna make sense.” —Michael Learns to Rock
  10. “One of the courageous decisions you’ll ever make is to finally let go of what is hurting your heart and soul.” – Brigitte Nicole
  11. “Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have – life itself.” – Walter Anderson
  12. “Whatever life gives you, even if it hurts, just be strong and act like the way you always do. Because strong walls shake but never collapse.”
  13. “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.” Romans 8:28

Quotes about breakups and moving on

Quotes about breakups and moving on
  1. “Let it hurt. Let it bleed. Let it heal. And let it go.” — Nikita Gill
  2. “Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together” —Marilyn Monroe
  3. “We must be willing to let go of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.” – Joseph Campbell
  4. “How much of human life is lost in waiting.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson
  5. “The poison leaves bit by bit, not all at once. Be patient. You are healing.” —Yasmin Mogahed
  6. “You don’t need closure. You just need to give yourself permission to move on.” —Steve Harvey
  7. “The secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new.” — Socrates
  8. “Breakups can be sad, but sometimes tears are the price we pay for a freedom we need.”― Steve Maraboli
  9. “You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.”
  10. “A confident and spiritual woman knows that “moving on” doesn’t mean you never loved someone. She realizes that letting go is what God needs her to do because both your happiness and hers requires taking different journeys for spiritual growth.” — Shannon L. Alder
  11. “Most women will do almost anything to avoid having to face these truths. Even if we yell and scream at him when we discover that he’s lied to us, once the dust settles, most of us will opt for the comforting territory of rationalization. In fact, many of us are willing to rewire our senses, short-circuit our instincts and intelligence, and accept the seductive comfort of self-delusion.” — Susan Forward
  12. “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!” Isaiah 43:18-19

Attitude breakup quotes

  1. “Don’t be sorry. I trusted you. My fault, not yours.” —Alfred Kubin
  2. “I like my relationships like I like my eggs — over easy.” — Jared Kintz
  3. “Love is unconditional. Relationships are not.” — Grant Gudmunson
  4. “Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.” — Mark Twain
  5. “I missed you until I realized there was never really anything to miss but the peace I felt before I knew you…” —R. H. Sin
  6. “Whatever you do, never run back to what broke you.” – Frank Ocean
  7. “I’m tired of fighting. For once, I want to be fought for.”— The Quest Within
  8. “Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.” — M. Kathleen Casey
  9. “Those who cheat on their partners who are loyal to them; don’t deserve them. It is a trashy attitude to disrespect a person who is loyal in a relationship, by cheating on him or her.” — Ellen J. Barrier

Funny breakup quotes

  1. “Our relationship is like my financial status: broke.”
  2. “I’m no longer following my heart. It keeps giving me bad directions.”
  3. “Please don’t be fooled by Adele. You’ll never find someone like me.”
  4. “If they are stupid enough to walk away, be smart enough to let them go.”
  5. “One day they’ll realize they lost a diamond while playing with worthless stones.” — Turcois Ominek
  6. “Only time can heal his heart, just as only time can heal his broken arms and legs.” — Miss Piggy
  7. “I like my relationships like I like my eggs — over easy.” — Jared Kintz
  8. “Love lasts about seven years. That’s how long it takes for the cells of the body to totally replace themselves.” — Francoise Sagan
  9. “Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because he is finally someone else’s problem.”

Breakup quotes for boys

  1. “I used to think that asking you out was the hardest and scariest thing that I would ever have to do. You were everything that I thought I wanted, but would you want me back? But now I realize that saying goodbye forever is the hardest thing to do.”
  2. “Pain makes you stronger, fear makes you braver, heartbreak makes you wiser.” – Drake
  3. “If you want to forget something or someone, never hate it, or never hate him/her. Everything and everyone that you hate is engraved upon your heart; if you want to let go of something, if you want to forget, you cannot hate.” – C. Joybell C.
  4. “Don’t you dare, for one more second, surround yourself with people who are not aware of the greatness that you are.” -Jo Blackwell-Preston
  5. “After a breakup, the memories are fresh and the pain is still raw. But after some time, it all fades away and you start to heal.”
  6. “When you have had your heart-broken, you will be afraid to give it to someone ever again. But you have to trust that one day, the right person will come along and that person will treat your heart the way it deserves to be treated.”

Unexpected breakup quotes

  1. “Ever has it been that love knows not its own death until the hour of separation.” — Khalil Gibran
  2. “There are all kinds of ways for a relationship to be tested, even broken, some, irrevocably; it’s the endings we’re unprepared for.” – Katherine Owen
  1. “As for lovers, well, they’ll come and go too. And baby, I hate to say it, most of them – actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can’t give up because if you give up, you’ll never find your soulmate. You’ll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn’t mean you’re gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don’t, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling.” – Marilyn Monroe
  1. “Life always waits for some crisis to occur before revealing itself at its most brilliant.” – Paulo Coelho
  2. “Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together” – Marilyn Monroe
  3. “When someone leaves, it’s because someone else is about to arrive.” – Paulo Coelho
  4. “When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us.” – Alexander Graham Bell
  5. “Remember that sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck.” – Dalai Lama
  6. “Throwing away a diamond doesn’t make it less valuable, it doesn’t make it worthless.”

Breakup comment

After receiving a breakup text from your partner it can be difficult to find the right words to text or to say to him or her. You might even feel like swearing at your partner but please refrain from doing so. Give your breakup the dignity it deserves.  

You can say words like:

  • It’s ok (although in your heart you know it’s not)
  • I get the picture
  • I guess I have to respect your decision
  • Wish I could change your mind, but ya
  • Goodbye
  • I’m hurt but I wish you all the best

If you need clarity you can call them or ask to meet up with them so that you can get closure.

But if they are not willing to meet up with you or ignore you then accept that you will have to deal with the breakup without getting any closure.

What is the most painful breakup line?

  • “I never loved you, I was just passing time”
  • “You’re too ugly”
  • “My new girlfriend is hotter than you”
  • “You’re not man enough”

What is the best breakup line?

  • I think we are no longer compatible for each other so I think it is best if we ended the relationship. 
  • I no longer feel the same way about you. 

What to say when breaking up with someone you love?

What to say when breaking up with someone you love?

Breaking up with someone you love is never easy, there are no right words and breakups are always painful. 

If your partner has done something wrong like betraying your trust, then it can be easier because you do not have to justify yourself.

“Cheating and lying aren’t struggles, they’re reasons to break up.” – Patti Callahan Henry

You can start with words like you know I really love you, or what we shared was beautiful, but I think it’s time we ended our relationship. But remember that even if you can praise them or tell them how great they are, it will not matter when you tell them it’s over. So sometimes the less you say the better and just be willing to answer questions.

Here are some polite phrases you can say when breaking up with someone you love:

  1. “I don’t feel the same way about you as I used to.”
  2. “I am feeling hurt by many incidents that have occurred throughout our relationship and think it would be best to move on.”
  3. “This relationship is not fulfilling my needs anymore.”
  4. “I am not comfortable staying together knowing that we are on two very different paths.”
  5. “I don’t feel right continuing a relationship that I can’t see making it long term.”
  6. “In thinking about our future, I don’t think we are compatible in the long run.”
  7. “I am having a difficult time communicating my needs to you, and think it would be best to work on myself.”
  8. “I don’t think our relationship is healthy for me to continue being a part of and think we should break up.”
  9. “I do not feel confident in our relationship succeeding going forward.”
  10. “I no longer feel happy in our relationship and think we should break up.”
  11. “I think we need to break up.”
  12. “I feel like it would be best if we ended our relationship.”
  13. “I have not been feeling fully satisfied in this relationship and think it would be best if we broke up.”
  14. “After some thought, I think we should end our relationship.”
  15. “I no longer want to continue our relationship.”

What to text her to break up?

  1. I feel awful doing this over text, but felt this was the best way for me to get my thoughts out as clearly as possible. Being with you has been filled with incredible highs and some painful lows, but we’ve always managed to make it work. Lately, I’ve reached a point where I feel like we’re no longer the best fit for each other. As much as I hate to end our relationship, I feel, at this point, that it’s the right thing to do. If you want to meet up and speak in person, I’m happy to do so at any point
  1. I don’t have the courage to say it in person, hence the text. Our relationship has been incredibly special, but I am realizing more and more that we both want different things out of life. I think it would be best to part ways, so we both have the opportunity to go after our individual goals.
  1. The last thing I ever want to do is hurt you, but I feel it’s best to be honest with you. Although I loved dating you, I just don’t see us working out. It’s nothing you or I did, I just don’t see our goals aligning in the future and feel it’s best to end things sooner than later. 
  1. Our relationship has been such an important aspect of my life for so long that I feel like I’ve forgotten how to just be me. While I’m beyond grateful for the beautiful memories that we’ve shared together, I think it’s important for me to be alone at this point. Please understand that this is not about anything that you did or didn’t do- you truly are such a wonderful person and have been an incredible girlfriend. I’m so sorry to have to do this.
  1. After some careful thought, I feel it’s best that we part ways. I have enjoyed our time together, but I don’t feel like this relationship is fulfilling all of my needs at this point. It was never my intention to hurt you, and I wish you nothing but the best in your life.
  1. I am so grateful for the time we’ve spent together, and I’ve loved getting to know you; however, I no longer feel that this is the best relationship for me. I will remember the wonderful times we’ve spent together, and I truly feel lucky that our paths crossed.
  1. I want to be completely honest with you. I have enjoyed our relationship, but I don’t see us working out in the future. Something within me has changed, and my needs have shifted. I will forever cherish the memories we’ve shared, and I’d love to remain friends if you’re open to it. I’m here if you have any questions or want to talk at any time.

Emotional break up status

  1. Worry less, smile more, don’t regret, just learn and grow.
  2. The only good thing about goodbyes is that it means you’re a little closer to a new hello.
  3. What appear to be the END may really be a new BEGINNING 
  4. Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.
  5. The heart was made to be broken.
  6. There comes a time when walking away is the best for everyone.
  7. No girl should ever forget that she doesn’t need anyone who doesn’t need her.
  8. Love is the beautiful mistake of my life.
  9. I don’t miss him, I miss who I thought he was.
  10. I know tomorrow will be better than today
  11. Don’t cry over the past, It’s gone. Don’t stress about the future, It hasn’t arrived. Live in the present and make it beautiful.
  12. I’m going to smile and make you think I’m happy, I’m going to laugh, so you don’t see me cry, I’m going to let you go in style, and even if it kills me – I’m going to smile.
  13. Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go.
  14. Always believe that something wonderful is about to happen.
  15. It’s good to spend time alone You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person.
  16. The best revenge is just moving on and getting over it. Don’t give someone the satisfaction of watching you suffer.
  17. Keep calm and be happy.
  18. Being single doesn’t mean you’re weak. It means you’re strong enough to wait for what you deserve.
  19. I can handle anything that life throws at me.
  20. Moving on after a break up is a great way to get back on your feet and start feeling happy again.
  21. There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind.-C.S. Lewis.
  22. As time goes by, we start to see more clearly, and are able to see that it wasn’t all bad, and that perhaps just perhaps the breakup was a gift.
  23. Breakups hurts, but losing someone who doesn’t respect and appreciate you is actually a gain not a loss.
  24. Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
  25. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can’t go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
  26. Cry Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.
  27. Sometimes the hardest part isn’t letting go, but rather, learning to start over.
  28. It’s time to be happy.

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