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Breakups are never easy, that’s why I am making it easy for you with these serious break up texts that you can copy and paste.

To tell the person you have spent time with or the person that you love “it’s over” is a difficult phrase. It is a phrase you never want to receive from your partner, that is why it is also difficult telling it to someone else.

It takes courage to tell someone that it is over, even when they are wrong and they deserve it. You might even think that ghosting them is even a better option, but please don’t.

But how do you send a breakup text when you are the one who is wrong? Maybe they treated you right, you can’t fault them on anything, it is just that you are not attracted to them or you don’t love them anymore? It’s difficult because the breakup text will come as a shock to them. They’ll be heartbroken and they might try and beg you to work things out.

So after sending a serious break up text, be prepared for questions, tears, silence, or attacks. 

Choose the breakup text that resonates with your situation, copy and paste then send. 

And here are tips on how to move on from someone that you love.

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How to break up with someone over text without hurting them

I don’t think you can ever break up with someone without hurting them, but you can send a polite message to end a relationship. 

1. Start with the positive

Instead of starting with it’s over, rather mention their positive contribution to the relationship. Even if the relationship was bad, there were certain things that attracted you to them or that they excelled at. 

So you can start by saying words like 

“I really enjoyed spending time with you”

“you are such an amazing person”

2. Be polite

As much as you want to be honest, please be polite. There are certain words that you should never use because it can crush their esteem and don’t body shame them.

Never say words like:

“You’re too ugly”

“You’re not man enough”

“You’re not good in bed”

3. Let them know why you are breaking up

If you are breaking up with your partner because you are in love with someone else, please don’t put blame on them. 

But if you are breaking up with them because they lied, cheated, or abused you, then you can be honest.

Make yourself and your needs the focus point, for example:

“I don’t see us working out” 

“I need to focus on me”

“I don’t do well with lies” 

4. Be brief

Don’t send a lengthy text, keep it brief. For example:

Hi, it was nice knowing you. But I don’t see us working out. Thank you for everything.

I enjoyed our relationship but the distance between us has become too great and there seems to be no immediate remedy. So I’m sorry I need to break this off.

5. Respond to their questions in a compassionate and kind way

They might respond and want clarity on your message. Please reply to them so that they can get some closure. This will help them not to blame themselves or think that they are not good enough. 

Serious break up texts copy and paste

#1. Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to be in your space. But I just don’t feel a real connection between us. It was lovely meeting you.

#2. When I met you, I thanked God that finally, I have found the one whom my soul loves. But I have come to realize that love alone is not enough. Goodbye, I wish you happiness with someone else. 

#3. Our situation has not been pleasant and I am no longer interested in pursuing any kind of relationship with you. If you reach out, I will not respond. I am crystal clear about ending this with you now. I wish you a better relationship with someone else.

#4. We had such a thrilling adventure. Even the best rides have to end at some point. I’m sad that we have come to the end of our journey. Have a blessed life without me.

#5. I really wish it wasn’t ending this way, but I’ve lost all trust after learning that you cheated. It’s over. Hope you’ll find what you have been searching for. 

#6. Only a few ‘welcome’, do not come with a bye-bye. I never knew that when I welcomed you into my life, you came with luggage that will soon birth the bye-bye. That luggage is too big for me, I hope someone else can help carry it for you.

#7. You have been an amazing partner, but I believe we will be better off separated. Please let’s put an end to this relationship.

#8. I’m not happy quitting this relationship, but I know it’s for the best. Although it’s hard to say goodbye, but I’m sorry, I have to say it.

#9. You deserve to be treated better than I am doing. I am confident you will find someone that will treat you with respect. I’m sorry to say goodbye.

#10. I have lost my identity in this relationship. I got so used to you that I don’t even know who I am anymore. At this point, I need to be myself, I’m sorry to have to end it this way.

Polite message to end a relationship

Polite message to end a relationship

#11. You are such an incredible partner. Any person would be lucky to have you in their life and I am eternally grateful to have found you. The last thing I’d ever want to do is hurt you, but I feel it’s best to be upfront with you. While I have loved dating you, I just don’t see us working out. It’s nothing you or I did, I just don’t see our goals aligning in the future and feel it’s best to end things sooner than later. I’m here to talk if you have any questions.

#12. Being in a relationship with you has been a pleasant experience, I never thought I will ever say goodbye to you. Saying goodbye at this point is like parting with a chunk of myself. Nevertheless, it is something I have to do. Wishing you a great life.

#13. As you know I haven’t been myself lately and you have always been asking if there is something wrong. You haven’t done anything wrong, it is just that I really need to find myself. You deserve someone who will truly value and treat you well. Please understand.

#14. The past months we have spent together have really been amazing. It is just that I don’t think that we are meant for each other. Wishing you a bright future.

#15. Our relationship has had its highs and lows. Our love has overcome so many hurdles. But I think it is now time to look beyond love and put myself first. It’s time we both moved on from this relationship. 

How to Break Up with Someone Nicely Over Text

If you are looking to break up with someone nicely over text without hurting them you have to:

  • Start with the positives. 
  • Don’t just say “it’s over” because they won’t see the part where you appreciate them. 
  • Don’t blame them for the breakup.
  • Don’t give too many specifics as to why you are breaking up with them. 
  • Don’t make it unnecessarily long. 

Here are some examples:

#16. You have touched my life in a great way and I can’t even begin to imagine my life without you. I wouldn’t be the strong person that I am if it was not for you. But lately, we have grown further apart. Someone out there is waiting for a great partner like you. Wishing you the best in life.

#17. I will forever cherish the moments we shared together. You are one of a kind. But now I just want to focus on me and wish for you to move on without me. We can still be friends if you want. 

#18. Our relationship has been fun all the way and filled with sweet and bitter memories, but it is time for me to move on. I know this may not meet you well. Please, forgive me.

Positive break up messages

#19. The moments we shared together have been great but we’ve also had some not-so-great moments. I am tired of trying to fix things. Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together. Goodbye.

#20. It’s time we ended our relationship. And I know you’ll be mad at me for it. But not all endings are bad. I know you will find someone who is meant for you, who will treat you like the queen/king you are.

#21. I’m sorry that I have to breakup with you over text, I just could not do it in person. Sometimes we must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. Goodbye.

#22. This might seem like a painful ending to something that had the potential to be great. But don’t see it as an ending, but a greeting to your new beginnings. Wishing you a great future.

#23. Some people think that it’s holding on that makes one strong; sometimes it’s letting go. I’m sorry I have to let go of this relationship. 

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#24. When you came into my life, I was still going through a heartbreak. And you became my knight in shining armour and picked up the pieces of my broken heart. But as time went on you changed. You were no longer that loving guy, I could even see the hatred for me through your eyes. It’s like you felt disgusted by my presence. So today I choose to walk away from this, from you, from us. I am choosing to move forward with my life, because this relationship is taking me backwards. I really loved you, but now that is in the past. Have a great life.

#25. I have given you my all, I have even given this relationship my all. You know very well that there is nothing I could not do for you. But because you know the depth of my love for you, you’ve taken advantage of it. But I have decided to be selfish for once and put myself first. It’s over between us. 

#26. Our relationship has been great while it lasted, but now it seems like the days I spend crying are more than the days when I am not crying. Our relationship has affected my mental wellness and I am no longer that happy person I used to be. It’s time to detach myself from the source of my pain and see what happens to me. Goodbye.

#27. For a relationship to work, it takes two to tango. But I have been in a one-sided relationship. When you finally find your soulmate (who is not me), you will finally be able to love wholeheartedly, in deed and words. I’m officially calling it quits between us. 

#28. You thought that I never had it in me to leave you because I gave you endless chances even after you abused me, betrayed my trust and always made it seem like you were doing me a favour by being in a relationship with me. Cheers to your freedom because I am out of here.

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#29. I loved you so much and did everything in my power to make you happy, but you never seemed happy with me. I still do love you so much and want to see you happy. But it doesn’t seem like you will ever find your happiness in me. I pray you find that man who will make you happy. It’s over between us.

#30. When I met you it was love at first sight. I even kept on dreaming of the day I would call you my wife. But I unfortunately had to wake up from my dream because you never appreciated my love for you. It’s over. Wishing you a great life.

#31. I pray you find what you are searching for because clearly that person is not me. Goodbye. 

#32. It’s been months of pretense and I can’t pretend anymore. In my heart, I’d already broken up with you months ago but I just did not have the guts to tell you. Goodbye, have a fantastic life.

#33. Breakups are hard but I know it won’t be hard for you since you were already acting as if we are not an item. You’re officially single, no one will cramp your style anymore. Enjoy your freedom. 

Painful breakup break ups text

Painful breakup break ups text

#34. It’s painful to let you go. But let’s be honest, this relationship has been long over. We were never compatible. Goodbye.

#35. I thought with time I’d eventually fall in love with you, but it’s really taking time to happen. In the meantime I think it’s best we go our different ways. Take care.

#36. The distance between us has become too great and there seems to be no immediate remedy. I don’t do well with long-distance relationships. So I’m sorry I need to break this off.

#37. What I am about to tell you will seem as a shock because we had dreams together. But I’m sorry to say we need to put those dreams on hold because my heart is with someone else. Wishing you the best for the future.

#38. Maybe it’s too difficult for you to say with words. I’ll help you put in words what you’ve been saying with your actions. It’s over between us.

Deep breakup message

#39. My love for you was deeper than the roots of a tree. Nothing could shake my love for you. But what you have done is just unforgettable, I can’t live like this. It’s the end of us.

#40. I always wished that this relationship will move from strength to strength and would continue until eternity, but it seems my wishes won’t be coming true. Thank you for the great time and I feel awful to have to say that it is over between us. 

#41. I’ve dreaded it. I’ve prevented it. I’ve preserved and postponed it for so long. Unfortunately, I can’t avoid it, even though it seems like I can’t afford it. It is not easy, but it is necessary to say thank you. It is over between us.

#42. I thought I’ve found my soulmate and we would be together forever. But so many things have happened between us. I just can’t do this anymore. It is over between us. 

#43. I had stretched for you, to the limit. I had accommodated you to the maximum. I wish I have more capacity for this, but I’m not built to constantly struggle to be loved. It’s time to move our different paths.

Touching breakup message

#44. I never demanded too much from you other than asking you to love me genuinely without compromise. But this seems too costly for you. It’s over between us.

#45. I choose to walk away because you were busy finding faults in me, and I was busy overlooking yours. Trust is like a glass, once broken it will never be the same again.

#46. You tore my heart into million pieces and I still stuck with you. I was very loyal to you. But now it’s time for me to focus on putting back the pieces of my heart that you intentionally trampled on. You always took my love for granted. Good luck finding someone suitable for you.

#47. We had such a great time together. I wish we could go back to that moment when we were both in love, and were each other’s everything. But it’s impossible to go back there. I have to continue this journey without you, but I know a better life awaits both of us. Wishing you the best.

#48. I was not prepared to type this message because I thought our separation would only happen when God takes either of us. I never thought our love would reach a point of no return. This is me saying it’s over. Have a beautiful life. 

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#49. My biggest mistake was to fall in love with the wrong person who does not love me back, but now I’m rectifying my wrongs. It’s over between us. Hope you find the one your heart loves.

#50. You’ve played with my heart endlessly, and I thought it was going to stop at some point. But life is too short to keep my hopes high. Enjoy your life without me.

#51. I didn’t know love can be this painful, I didn’t know it hurts this much. It’s time I found healing away from you. Have a great life.

#52. You’ve been my one true love. I hope in the future I will be able to open up my heart again for love. But as for now, I’m closing it. Goodbye.

#53. I will forever cherish the times we spent together. Thank you so much for choosing me. I’m sorry I have to break things off you with you. Hope you will find it in your heart to forgive me.

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#54. I thought life cannot be lived successfully without you but you’ve taught me how to live it all alone. Thank you for the pain, goodbye.

#55. I thought love is meant to be enjoyed and not endured. You’ve taught me how to endure but now I’ve had enough of this. Have a nice life without me.

#56. I never thought I would have the courage to do this because I love you deeply and have a soft spot for you. But I am tired of constantly being lied to. It’s over, for good this time.

#57. I could never imagine my life without you. But now I won’t have to imagine it because I am living it. Have a good life without me.

#58. Our love has been a roller-coaster but we’ve reached the end of our ride. Goodbye. 

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#59. You deserve someone who is all in for you. I am genuinely sorry that I am not the right partner for you. I wish that you will get the perfect match someday. Goodbye.

#60. Goodbye to the person who I loved the most, I am shattered and I feel empty inside.

#61. I can’t wait any longer, we should end it right now. We don’t belong together, and it’s time for both of us to move on with our lives. Separately. Thank you for being with me all this time. But it’s time to say goodbye.

#62. I know we had life’s best times when we were together, but it is hard to be in the same relationship as there is no place to breathe here. It is better if we stop dreaming. We should face the truth and walk off from each other’s life.

#63. Honesty has always been the best policy in our relationship, so I want to show you the respect of keeping that going. I admire you and I care about you a lot, but I don’t feel like our relationship is a big priority anymore. It isn’t either of our faults, I just think we have grown beyond what we can offer each other. I think it’s best to end things.

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#64. I have had an incredible time with you. I think if we have met at a different time, under different circumstances, our relationship would have thrived. But I think for now we are not a good fit and we should just be friends. Wishing you the very best. 

#65. You are such a great person it’s just that I always find a way to self-sabotage great things that come my way. I’m sorry for wasting your time goodbye.

#66. At this point in time, my heart cannot accommodate a romantic relationship. I think we could be best off as friends. Thank you for showing me love, I really appreciate it.

#67. I appreciate your love. You loved me unconditionally. I’m sorry that I can’t be the woman that you want me to be. Wishing you love and happiness.

#68. I am glad that our paths crossed because I learned so much from you. You have really transformed my life, I am the woman I am all thanks to you. I wish I didn’t have to say goodbye to you, but it’s something I have to do for myself. One day it will make sense.

#69. The last thing I wanted to do was to hurt you. I thought of ghosting you but it did not give me peace. I thought of pretending just to make you happy but that wouldn’t be acting out of love. Things are no longer the same between us and I think it’s best if we parted ways. But we can still remain as friends if you like.

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#70. You were more than just my boyfriend; you were my best friend, my everything. But it seemed like to you I was nothing. When the time is right, you will find someone who is your everything and I will also find someone who sees me as their everything. It’s over between us.

#71. I really enjoyed our relationship, I had already called off the search. But I see that I am not enough for you, you are still searching for more. Hope you find the perfect woman that you are searching for.

#72. I consider the time I spent with you as a blessing because I loved you. But I can’t continue being in love by myself. Wish you the best.

#73. I know I have given our relationship my best, but my best was not enough for you. Wishing you the best without me.

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#74. It’s time I put me first, I’m tired of being in a situationship. I’ll wait for someone who will love me for me. Goodbye.

#75. Our situationship was good while it lasted, but it seems like we want different things and none of us can reach a compromise. Have a nice life.

#76. It was nice knowing you but it’s time for me to be with someone who values me and does not take my love for granted. Have a great life.

#77. I have been doing a lot of introspection and have concluded that this is not the kind of relationship I want. Wishing you the best in life.

#78. I’m sorry I have to end this. I’m becoming too emotionally attached to you, which is not healthy because you have made it clear that this is just a situationship arrangement. Goodbye. 

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#79. It was really nice getting to know you, we’re just not the best fit for each other. I’m sorry.

#80. The past couple of weeks were amazing. But I just haven’t felt that spark and don’t think it’s going to work out. Wishing you the best.

#81. You’re such a great person and someone out there would be lucky to have you as their partner. I’d love to keep in touch and stay friends if you’re open to it.

#82. I haven’t been feeling myself lately, and I think it’s important for me to be alone for sometime. Please move on.

#83. Our relationship has been nice while it lasted. But I don’t think we are the right match for each other. Wishing you a great life. 

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#84. You’ve been a good friend at times, but I think now our friendship is no longer serving its purpose. It’s time to call it quits.

#85. I’ve always thought that breakups were for relationships, but our friendship can do with one right now. I’m sorry but we’ve come to the end of our season.

#86. Our friendship has always been a one-sided friendship where you always take and take but you never give. I think it’s time to call it quits, goodbye it’s over.

#87. I thought you were my friend, I never thought you could betray me in this way. Our friendship ends here.

#88. I no longer feel comfortable with our friendship. We made such a great team but we have to go our separate ways now. 

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#89. I loved getting to know you, but I think it’s best if we stopped seeing each other. Have a great day.

#90. I think it is best if we stopped seeing each other, but we can still be friends if you are open to it.

#91. The past couple of weeks with you have been great. You are such an amazing person but I prefer being single for now. Wishing you all the best.

#92. I’m no longer interested in seeing you romantically, but I hope we can still stay in touch.

#93. I’ve enjoyed spending time with you, but I no longer want to be in this relationship going forward.

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#94. I opened my heart for you, but to you, I was only an option. I am now with someone else. Don’t call me again.

#95. All I ever wanted from you was to be treated with respect, but it seems like it’s never going to happen. Hopefully, you will find someone you can respect or who will tolerate your disrespect. Goodbye for good.

#96. I gave you so many chances but it’s now time to give myself a chance at true happiness. Thank you for your time, it’s over.

#97. I have tolerated your toxicity for a while now, but I can’t go beyond this. So that’s it from me. Don’t ever call or text me again.

#98. I knew very well what you got up to when we are not together, but I decided to keep quiet about it. Now I can’t anymore. It’s over between us.

#99. It hurts to tell you goodbye but I’ll rather go than keep a relationship that has no sign of improvement. I appreciate all that you have done for me. Goodbye.

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